Dating - English

Describing Dating Activities

When talking about dating, you might say you have an appointment or more commonly, a date. A typical first meeting is called a first date. Common activities include going out for dinner, having ice cream, watching a movie, or meeting up for lunch. After the first meeting, you might go on a second date. The phrases to go out and to hang out both mean spending time together, though “go out” can imply romantic interest.

Examples:

• We went out for dinner on our first date.
• Do you want to hang out and get ice cream after the movie?
• Our lunch date went really well.
• He kissed her at the end of the second date.

Describing Common Dating Roles

When referring to the people involved in dating, you’ll see terms like boyfriend and girlfriend. Before officially dating, you might have a crush on someone—a person you like romantically, but perhaps secretly. Once two people are together, they are a couple. People might also say a partner to refer to their significant other in a gender-neutral way. The words girl or boy can sometimes refer to someone you are interested in, but “girlfriend” and “boyfriend” are more specific.

Examples:

• She has a crush on the boy in her class.
• They became a couple after a few dates.
• This is my partner—they’re very special to me.

Describing Emotions and Feelings Related to Dating

Dating is often full of emotions. You might feel nervous or feel excited before a date. After several dates, you might be in love, or simply like the other person. If you’re apart, you might miss someone and want to see them again. If things don’t go well, you could feel worried.

Examples:

• I felt nervous before my first date with her.
• He is in love with his girlfriend.
• Do you ever miss someone when they’re not around?
• I’m excited to see my boyfriend tonight.

The Language of Dating Communication

Communication is important in dating. You might start by flirting or giving a compliment. To take things further, you can ask out someone or ask for a number (ask for their phone number). You can introduce yourself, make a move, or message or text each other. After sending a message, you’d usually reply or respond. You might call them for a conversation or to perhaps arrange a meeting.

Sometimes, things end and people break up, or someone might ignore the other person. If you like the person, you might express that you want to see again.

Examples:

• He complimented her on her smile.
• She asked him out after class.
• Can I have your number?
• He texted her but she didn’t reply.
• They broke up last month but still talk sometimes.